As any man who has ever had a girlfriend can
confirm, ladies are jealous creatures. They're forever accusing their dates of
checking out other women and hitting on their friends - and, much as we may
deny it, they're frequently right.
Most guys suspect that their relationship isn't going to last. At some point
his girlfriend's jealousy and paranoia are going to become too much for him. Or
possibly his wandering eyes will drive her into dumping him. Either way, the
end seems inevitable and it pays to be prepared.
If you have more than a handful of dates with a lady, you're likely to meet
her friends. And some of those friends are likely to be attractive. By charming
those girls now, you can ensure that your eventual break up will do nothing to
stop you scoring with them in the months to come.
So how do you go about it?
The first thing to remember is never to do the dirty on your girlfriend.
It doesn't matter how gorgeous her very drunken friend is, good guys
do not cheat.
Bad guys know better, too; if your current girl catches you misbehaving word
will soon get around for single girls to steer well clear of you. It's rarely
worth the fallout.
But you can pave the way for post-break-up encounters with other girls.
Bear in mind that you are currently unavailable - so act it. Don't use any pick up lines, don't
exchange innuendoes and don't attempt to get your girl's best friend to kiss
you. Your mission just now is not to actually score with her friends; it's to
get them to like you enough that you'll stand a chance with them in the future.
Ironically, the best way to get your girlfriend's friends interested in you is
to be interested in your girlfriend. If you treat her well and show yourself to
be a sweet, considerate guy you will immediately be seen as a catch. Making a
big deal out of her birthday or special occasions is a great way to show that
you care about her, while asking her friends for advice about which gifts to
buy or where to take her will simultaneously flatter and impress them.
Build up a genuine rapport with her friends. Make a point of
remembering their names and little details such as their jobs, hobbies and
what types of pet they all keep. When one of them talks to you, make sure you
really listen. Maintain eye contact, smile and pay attention to what they're
telling you. If you can establish a friendly connection with the girls, they'll
miss you after the break up - and will grab every opportunity to re-establish
that bond.
Be aware of how the girls are feeling. If one looks or sounds unhappy, ask if
she's okay. If she wants to talk, turn your shoulders towards her and let her
explain exactly what's getting her down. This will ensure that everyone sees
you as a caring, sensitive and desirable man.
When you do break up with your current girl, try to keep things civil. If the
relationship ends with a fight, her friends will feel that they have to take
her side. If, however, you and your ex are able to exchange pleasantries her
friends will feel free to do the same.
A break up doesn't have to signal the end of all contact with a group. Play
your cards right now and the end of one flirtation could very well be the start
of something new.
Credit: Kelvin Ho
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